Bismillahirrahmaanirrahiim,
Problems or problems of life is something that must not be lost on our daily lives. But the attitude of every person in the face of sometimes different issues, there are so panicky, shaky, frantic, but there are also stress that deal with such steady, calm, or even actually enjoy it.
Means the problem or the real issue lies not in question but on attitudes toward the issue. Here are some tips that can kitacermati:
1. Ready
Is Ready face that matches the desired and ready to face that does not fit with desire.
We are required to have desire, the ideals, the right plan and reasonable in this life, but at the same time We also have to realize that we are only creatures that have very much limited to knowing everything that is not affordable by the power of reason and of our ability.
Know we have a plan, Allah also have a plan, and that would happen is what is the plan of Allah.
Therefore, "fa fa azamta itha tawaqqal alalloh" rounded determination, improved heart effort but must still submit all decisions and the best thing to Allah.
2.Ridha
Ready to face whatever will happen, and if there, only the first step is to cultivate our hearts to pleasure / willing to reality. Why? Because although cranky, grumpy and disappointed still, the fact it has happened. In short, pleasure or not, it still has happened. So, our hearts better just to accept pleasure.
If we were a walk, suddenly there was a small stone stray from nowhere and landed right on our foreheads, our hearts must be pleasure, because pleasure is not even fixed lump.
Of course, satisfaction or willing to an event that does not mean the total surrender that does not act anything. That is a false notion. Surrender / pleasure only deeds, our hearts to accept the fact that there, but the mind and body must endeavor to improve the reality in a way that Allah approves. A quiet heart conditions or pleasure is a very helpful process into a positive endeavor, optimal, and quality.
You see, life is made up of many episodes that are not monotonous. This is a fact of life, our life's journey recall the past and we should really wise to address each episode gracefully, head cold, and a sincere heart. Do not be covered herself with complaints because it does not solve the problem, may even aggravate the problem.
Thus, the liver should receive whatever satisfaction the fact that happened while efforts to improve the reality on the way Allah approves.
3. Do not be Yourself
If we're honest, we really are most hobby writing, dramatizing, and make themselves. Most of our suffering is the result of dramatization of his own feelings and thoughts. Besides improper, he must also make the problem will become larger, more sinister, more powerful, more bitter, more serious, more melancholy than the original reality, of course eventually we would feel much more miserable, more trouble in the face / overcome.
Thus, in the face any problems do not lost deep in thought wrong. We must be calm, self-controlled while contemplating the promise and assurance of Allah's help. Have not we been through this often-times very difficult and it can eventually escape?
Be assured that an all-knowing God would have to measure everything that happened to our examination in accordance with the appropriate dose and the circumstances of our ability.
4. Self Evaluation
"Whoever is doing good particle weighing one, surely he would see in return. And if any do evil particle weighing one, surely he would see the same in return" (Surah Al-Zalzala [99]: 7-8)
Allah is sensitive to whatever we do. His justice will not miss anyone, anyone who do, small and any setersembunyi goodness, Allah swt, will return many times with various forms according to his best. Conversely, ruthlessness as smooth as anything we do that seems like menzalimi others, but in fact menzalimi myself, would invite disaster response from Allah, which must be more bitter and critical. Naudzubillah.
If there is a stone that hit our foreheads, but the heart must be pleasure, we must contemplate, why did God impose this rock right into our foreheads, but the field was so wide and my head is so small? It may be that all this is a reminder that we are often negligent bow, or prostrate negligent of us to remember Him. God did not create anything in vain, certainly everything there lesson.
Make every problem as an effective tool to evaluate and improve because that is a benefit to themselves and to invite the help of Allah swt.
5.Hanya Allah is One only Helper
Surely something will not happen except by permission of Allah. Neither form of misfortune or pleasure. Although joining the jinn and men combined to harm us, for God will not fall in any one strand of hair without his permission. So did the opposite, although joining the jinn and mankind promised to help or give something, never will come a penny without his permission.
In short, do not be afraid to face the problem, but fear not getting the help of God in the face. Without his help, we will continue to wander in distress, from one problem to another problem, with no added value to the world and the next we ... truly a real loss.
Accept congratulations happy, for my brethren who worship God and the more obedient when given the distress and excitement, waking prayers, conduct to use ruqyah noble, generous, clean heart, and late in the deeds of God preferred.
InsyaAllah, the problem will be the educational path, and God himself will be more mature, maturing, increasing knowledge, broaden the experience, doubling the reward, and make life much better quality, noble, and honorable in the afterlife.
Hopefully, with the permission of Allah, this description helps.
Problems or problems of life is something that must not be lost on our daily lives. But the attitude of every person in the face of sometimes different issues, there are so panicky, shaky, frantic, but there are also stress that deal with such steady, calm, or even actually enjoy it.
Means the problem or the real issue lies not in question but on attitudes toward the issue. Here are some tips that can kitacermati:
1. Ready
Is Ready face that matches the desired and ready to face that does not fit with desire.
We are required to have desire, the ideals, the right plan and reasonable in this life, but at the same time We also have to realize that we are only creatures that have very much limited to knowing everything that is not affordable by the power of reason and of our ability.
Know we have a plan, Allah also have a plan, and that would happen is what is the plan of Allah.
Therefore, "fa fa azamta itha tawaqqal alalloh" rounded determination, improved heart effort but must still submit all decisions and the best thing to Allah.
2.Ridha
Ready to face whatever will happen, and if there, only the first step is to cultivate our hearts to pleasure / willing to reality. Why? Because although cranky, grumpy and disappointed still, the fact it has happened. In short, pleasure or not, it still has happened. So, our hearts better just to accept pleasure.
If we were a walk, suddenly there was a small stone stray from nowhere and landed right on our foreheads, our hearts must be pleasure, because pleasure is not even fixed lump.
Of course, satisfaction or willing to an event that does not mean the total surrender that does not act anything. That is a false notion. Surrender / pleasure only deeds, our hearts to accept the fact that there, but the mind and body must endeavor to improve the reality in a way that Allah approves. A quiet heart conditions or pleasure is a very helpful process into a positive endeavor, optimal, and quality.
You see, life is made up of many episodes that are not monotonous. This is a fact of life, our life's journey recall the past and we should really wise to address each episode gracefully, head cold, and a sincere heart. Do not be covered herself with complaints because it does not solve the problem, may even aggravate the problem.
Thus, the liver should receive whatever satisfaction the fact that happened while efforts to improve the reality on the way Allah approves.
3. Do not be Yourself
If we're honest, we really are most hobby writing, dramatizing, and make themselves. Most of our suffering is the result of dramatization of his own feelings and thoughts. Besides improper, he must also make the problem will become larger, more sinister, more powerful, more bitter, more serious, more melancholy than the original reality, of course eventually we would feel much more miserable, more trouble in the face / overcome.
Thus, in the face any problems do not lost deep in thought wrong. We must be calm, self-controlled while contemplating the promise and assurance of Allah's help. Have not we been through this often-times very difficult and it can eventually escape?
Be assured that an all-knowing God would have to measure everything that happened to our examination in accordance with the appropriate dose and the circumstances of our ability.
4. Self Evaluation
"Whoever is doing good particle weighing one, surely he would see in return. And if any do evil particle weighing one, surely he would see the same in return" (Surah Al-Zalzala [99]: 7-8)
Allah is sensitive to whatever we do. His justice will not miss anyone, anyone who do, small and any setersembunyi goodness, Allah swt, will return many times with various forms according to his best. Conversely, ruthlessness as smooth as anything we do that seems like menzalimi others, but in fact menzalimi myself, would invite disaster response from Allah, which must be more bitter and critical. Naudzubillah.
If there is a stone that hit our foreheads, but the heart must be pleasure, we must contemplate, why did God impose this rock right into our foreheads, but the field was so wide and my head is so small? It may be that all this is a reminder that we are often negligent bow, or prostrate negligent of us to remember Him. God did not create anything in vain, certainly everything there lesson.
Make every problem as an effective tool to evaluate and improve because that is a benefit to themselves and to invite the help of Allah swt.
5.Hanya Allah is One only Helper
Surely something will not happen except by permission of Allah. Neither form of misfortune or pleasure. Although joining the jinn and men combined to harm us, for God will not fall in any one strand of hair without his permission. So did the opposite, although joining the jinn and mankind promised to help or give something, never will come a penny without his permission.
In short, do not be afraid to face the problem, but fear not getting the help of God in the face. Without his help, we will continue to wander in distress, from one problem to another problem, with no added value to the world and the next we ... truly a real loss.
Accept congratulations happy, for my brethren who worship God and the more obedient when given the distress and excitement, waking prayers, conduct to use ruqyah noble, generous, clean heart, and late in the deeds of God preferred.
InsyaAllah, the problem will be the educational path, and God himself will be more mature, maturing, increasing knowledge, broaden the experience, doubling the reward, and make life much better quality, noble, and honorable in the afterlife.
Hopefully, with the permission of Allah, this description helps.
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